HOLY UNION GUIDELINES (repost)

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HOLY UNION RITE GUIDELINES OF THE LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC.

GUIDELINES FOR HOLY UNION or SAME SEX WEDDING or LGBTQIA+ WEDDING of the LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC.

WHAT IS THE RITE OF HOLY UNION?

The Rite of the Holy Union is one of the Five Rites and Two Sacraments of the LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH in Quezon City.

THE RITE OF HOLY UNION is a wedding ceremonial ritual for two consenting adults that promise to live together for the rest of their lives, in building their own family suited and fitted for their desire base on love, responsibility and communion with GOD.

The heart and soul of Rite of Holy Union is on the wedding vows. The promise of loyalty, commitment and trust are essences of the union ceremony attested and witnesses by their friends and or family.

Conducted by a minister authorized by the LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC.

THE DIFFERENCE OF HOLY UNION AND MATRIMONY.

The difference of Holy Union and Matrimony is that Matrimony has its legal entity while the Holy Union is pure ritual. Unfortunately, the Philippines we have no Marriage Equality Law or the Same-Sex Marriage Law yet.

LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC. advocates for equal protections of the law, thus we support marriage equality bill pass into law in the Philippines. Furthermore, the Holy Union Rite conducted in the Philippines are not yet recognized by the the Philippine government but in some countries which have  Marriage Equality Law e.g. Australia, New Zealand, Canada, Sweden,  in the USA, Portugal and in Europe to name a few. Couples can used the Certificate of Holy Union issued by the LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC. as Proof of Togetherness, the partner can petition his or her partner in a countries where there are Marriage Equality Law, as mentioned.

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IS THE RITE OF HOLY UNION ILLEGAL?

The Philippine Constitution guarantees that the Freedom of Religion is protected, in Article III, Section 5 of the Bill of Rights states that.. “No law shall be made respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof. The free exercise and enjoyment of religious profession and worship, without discrimination or preference, shall forever be allowed. No religious test shall be required for the exercise of civil or political rights”

HINDI PA MABABAGO ANG SURNAME

Hindi pa dear magbabago ang surname kasi wala pang marriage equality law sa atin  na kumikilala sa LGBT Couple as family, this is pure ritual na tinatawag namin Holy Union Rite, a wedding ceremony ng LGBTS Christian Church. However kahit hindi pa ito legal sa atin ay nagagamit naman ang Certificate of Holy Union ng LGBTS Christian Church Inc sa mga bansang merong Marriage Equality Law as Proof of Togetherness. Nagagmit ng Couple upang mapetition ang Partner in Life nya for spousal visa or family visa.

THE ESSENCE OF THE RITE OF THE HOLY UNION IS THE “EXCHANGING OF THE VOWS” OF TWO LOVING PERSON THAT PROMISE TO BE TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES WITH OR WITHOUT THE LEGAL PAPERS. THIS IS A PRIVATE OR PUBLIC CEREMONY TO BE CONDUCTED PURPOSELY FOR THE CELEBRATION OF UNION OF TWO SOULS.

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REQUIREMENTS

1. Birth Certificate (Xerox only) or any ID for Identification purposes only.

2. LGBTSCC Holy Union Registration Form

holy-union-registration-form-pdf

3. Passport (Xerox Only) for Foreigner only.

4. Picture together for Identification.

WEDDING COUNSELLING AND ORIENTATION IS IMPORTANT

1. One hour wedding counseling. This is important.

2. No wedding counseling No Holy Union Rite. This is important.

FEES

1. Php 11,000 within Metro Manila plus transportation fare from our Lgbts Convent, 4 Alley 24 St, Project 6, Quezon City.  Donations for the Church’s ministry are to encourage.

2. Php 13,500 outside Metro Manila plus transportation fare and hotel accommodation. Donation to the Church’s ministry is encouraged.

3. Reservation of Php 5,000 during the wedding counseling or ahead of time to reserve the date of the wedding and the remaining balance after the Holy Union Ceremony or full payment before the wedding. NO REFUND.

4. First Come First Serve basis. Will give priority to the Couple who pay the down payment the earliest.

We issue a “Certificate of Holy Union”, certifying your Holy Union under the LGBTS CHRISTIAN CHURCH INC. The Certificate of Holy Union could be used as Proof of Togetherness of the couple.

THINGS NEED DURING THE HOLY UNION RITE

Ring,

Veil,

Cord,

Arras,

Bible,

Candles (One big and  Two small)

OUR HOME CHURCH OFFICE ADDRESS (LGBTS CONVENT): 4 Alley 24, Project 6, Quezon City, Philippines

NOTE: Hindi pa legal dear kasi wala pang marriage equality law sa Pilipinas na kumikilala sa LGBT Couple as Family pero hindi naman bawal ang Holy Union Rite ng LGBTS Christian Church Inc. dahil ito naman ay isang church wedding ceremony, we are protected by Freedom of Religion. However kahit hindi pa ito legal sa atin ay nagagamit naman ang Certificate of Holy Union ng LGBTS Christian Church Inc sa mga bansang merong Marriage Equality Law as Proof of Togetherness or Evodence of Relationship Nagagmit ng Couple upang mapetition ang Partner in Life nya for spousal visa or family visa sa USA, Canada, Australia, most part of Europe, etc. May couple na din na nagamit nila ang Certiificate of Holy Union as Proof of Togetherness or Evidence of Relationship sa SSS, PagIbig at mga insurance company like PRU LIFE UK. Ask me how? Nagamit din sa Bangko gaya ng Security Bank at BDO for joint account. Pero hindi pa din mamapaplitan ang surname ng isa kasi wala pa tayong Marriage Equality Law or isang batas na kikilala sa LGBTQ Couple as Family.

FOR HOLY UNION RESERVATIONS, kindly contact :

Rev.Crescencio Agbayani Jr. at 09164260481 

Email Address are rev.ceejay@yahoo.com or lgbtscc@gmail.com

FB Accounts : RevCeejay Gaba Agbayani Jr  or Rev.Ceejay Agbayani,MDiv or RevCeejay Agbayani

Church FB Account: Lgbts Christian Church Inc. or Lgbts Christian Church Philippines or LgbtsChristian Church

Church Email Add: lgbtscc@gmail.com or rev.ceejay@yahoo.com

The Rite of Holy Union of Ervin and Gerald

Holy Union Rite of Daisy and Pinky officiated by Rev.Crescencio Agbayani Jr and Rev. Edgar Capili in Tagaytay City

//updated December 29, 2022

//updated December 29, 2022

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1. Sachiko BathanJune 14, 2021 at 11:58 amHi po pastor. Ask ko lang po if pwede na po kami magpa schedule po ng partner ko next year March 2022?Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.June 15, 2021 at 6:04 ampwede. anong date sa march 2022 ang nais nyong ipareserve ba?Reply
      1. miaMay 23, 2022 at 1:43 pmpwede na po ba ang 22 y/o?
      2. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.May 23, 2022 at 1:46 pmpwede. how old yung partner mo?
      3. Prince JuatonDecember 29, 2022 at 3:31 pmFr.good day po gusto kopo mag tanung kung ikakasal kami this june 4 2023 anung araw po ba ang ceminar
      4. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.December 29, 2022 at 4:50 pma month before your wedding
      5. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.December 29, 2022 at 4:51 pmTo reserve that date dear ay need nyo pong mag downpayment ng 5k para ma block yung date para sa inyo at hindi na kayo maunahan ng ibang couple sa gusto nyong date ng kasal.
         Pwede po kayong mag downpayment thru BPI Bank Account 9619036856. My full name is CRESCENCIO G. AGBAYANI JR. Our mailing address is 4 Alley 24 Project 6, Quezon City.or pwede din thur Cebuana, Palawan or ML or LBC. Or thru GCash ko na 09164260481. Crescencio Agbayani Jr ang name ko sa GCash.
2. JericJune 25, 2021 at 9:19 amMy partner is Muslim if there’s possible problem about the religion?Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.June 25, 2021 at 7:17 pmOK naman kung Muslim. No problem with us. ASk him if its ok that the ceremony is a Christian Rite. If its is ok to him. We are ok with it tooReply
3. RowenaJune 30, 2021 at 4:55 pmHello po..f magpa schedule ba kmi ng march 28.2022 tas feb.ang uwi ng partner q.kakayanin po ba ang pag process non. Salamat po.Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.July 14, 2021 at 10:43 amPls contact us at 09164260481 asap dear. or email us at rev.ceejay@yahoo.com to reserve that date dearReply
4. RowenaJuly 8, 2021 at 12:17 pmRev.f nagpa schdule po ba kami ng feb.27.2022.f ever po nagka problema sa flyt ng parther q pauwi.pwdi po kaya namin pa re schdule un qng sakali po.ok lng po ba un.
   Salamat po sa sagot.Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.July 8, 2021 at 1:08 pmyes dear pwede namanReply
      1. Rhinalyn riveraJuly 17, 2021 at 12:54 pmMga nextmonth napo kami ready? Anong lugar po? And for reservation what need?
      2. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.July 17, 2021 at 1:36 pmPlease contact me at 09164260481 or email us at rev.ceejay@yahoo.com.. add me sa RevCeejay Gaba Agbayani Jr sa FB
5. Rhinalyn s riveraJuly 17, 2021 at 12:47 pmPapa schedule po..Reply
6. Rhinalyn riveraJuly 17, 2021 at 12:51 pmSa church nyo po pwede nmn po dbaReply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.July 17, 2021 at 1:39 pmyes pwede naman po. please call or text us at 09164260481. or email us rev.ceejay@yahoo.com or msg me sa RevCeejay Gaba Agbayani JrReply
      1. HaneJune 21, 2022 at 4:35 amHi po, pwede po ba mag pakasal kahit Roman Catholic? Both po kame.
      2. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.June 21, 2022 at 7:52 ampwede. we are very ecumenical church dear . all are welcome. all are affirmed here. walang pagtatangi. walang panghuhusga and slogan namin dear . kaya pwedeng pwede . madaming katoliko sa church namin dear
7. Candy mendozaJuly 25, 2021 at 5:44 pmPano po pag walang passport po ???Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.July 26, 2021 at 2:51 pmany ID or Birth Certificate dearReply
8. Mildred fernansezAugust 14, 2021 at 11:44 pmHello po, dto po kmi s Dubai na 2 NG partner ko. OK Lang po ba thru zoom? We are planning po next month pero wla akong birth cert dto passport copy Lang.Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.August 15, 2021 at 11:59 amWala kami dear na online wedding e.Reply
   2. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.August 15, 2021 at 12:10 pmCall me at 09164260481Reply
   3. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.August 15, 2021 at 4:41 pmwala kaming online wedding dear e. pls call or text me at 09164260481. or email me at rev.ceejay@yahoo.com or lgbtscc@gmail.comReply
9. IreneAugust 21, 2021 at 12:09 amPastor..pde napo ba ako mg pakasal sa leave in partner ko.?.8nyears npo km ng sasama..
   Pero kasal po ako sa dati kng x lalaki..pero hiwlay na km ng 10 years na..pls answer it..maraming slamat po..Reply
   1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.August 21, 2021 at 9:18 ampwede na kung ganun na pala katagal na hiwalayReply
   2. Marjo S. BayonaNovember 24, 2021 at 3:56 pm1 yr. And 3 months napo kami
      Gusto Kona po syang pakasalan ito January 8. Ako si Marjo S. Bayona at Si Maylyn Cortez Magnaye gusto kopong simpling kasalan lang po. Salamat poReply
      1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.November 25, 2021 at 7:04 ampls contact me ineng sa 09164260481 or email me sa lgbtscc@gmail.com, fully booked na po ang schedule ko sa Dec 13 to Jan 26th.. baka ok kayo sa Feb na lang ko ikasal? msg me din sa FB account ko sa RevCeejay Gaba Agbayani Jr
10. Kristine Kim Villanueva .September 4, 2021 at 2:00 amHi Rev .
    Mag 3 months palang po kame ng partner ko pero nagsasama na po kame .. kung mag papakasal po ba kame pwede po ba dyan mismo sa Church nyu po kame nalang po ang pupunta po incase?Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.September 4, 2021 at 8:01 amyes pwede pero need nyong mag pareserve muna ng date ng kasal nyo dear ah. pls call me or text sa 09164260481 para malaman ko kung open pa or hindi na yung target date ng kasal nyo dearReply
11. Kristine Kim Villanueva .September 4, 2021 at 2:02 amHi Rev .
    Mag 3 months palang po kame ng partner ko pero nagsasama na po kame .. kung mag papakasal po ba kame pwede po ba dyan mismo sa Church nyu po , kame nalang po ang pupunta po incase?Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.September 6, 2021 at 10:06 pmpwede dear. pls call me at 09164260481Reply
12. DeeSeptember 18, 2021 at 7:19 pmWala po bang kaso ito sa religion. Catholic po kami both.Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.September 19, 2021 at 3:33 pmwala naman dear kasi ecumenical christian church naman kami . all are welcome sa aminReply
13. YoanDecember 10, 2021 at 10:34 pmGood day po . Ask lang po ako if pwede parin magpakasal kahit LDR kami plano namin pag uwi namong dalawa magpakasal . Mag isang taon na po kaming LDR di parin makakauwi dahil sa pandemicReply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.December 11, 2021 at 6:50 amyes pwede naman. pero wala po kaming online wedding ah. ang kasal po namin ay face to face po ahReply
14. YoanDecember 12, 2021 at 6:49 amMaraming salamat po . Papabook kami kapag malapit na kami mkauwi .Reply
15. Ramelyn SorreFebruary 27, 2022 at 6:00 amGood day p0!!!January po next year uwe na po ako, i was planing to marry my lesbian partner…magkno po?Cabanatuan po kmi,and we are together for 2years …dito pa po kc ako Oman..thank you poReply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.February 28, 2022 at 7:44 amKung outside metro manila is 12500 ang fee. tapos hatid at sundo kami ah. at may accomodation dear ahReply
       1. marpeMarch 11, 2022 at 4:31 pmmagkano Po Davao City po?
       2. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.March 11, 2022 at 11:42 pmKapag outside metro manila dear is 12500 ang fee. sagot nyo din po ang airfare at accomodation namin po. pls contact 09287380449 Look for Marlon Felipe.
       3. Joy dayanan TormisApril 28, 2022 at 10:34 amHello po rev , ask ko lang po pwdi po ba kami mag pakasal nang partner ko na kami lang po na walang ninong at ninang , atchaka parents namin ??
       4. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.April 28, 2022 at 12:30 pmyes pwede naman. ang importante sa kasal ay yung ikakasal at ang magkakasal
16. Katrina Mae AbejoMarch 15, 2022 at 3:57 pm.hello po gOod day, .
    pwede po ba na kme lNg ng pArtner q oR need po ng witnesses ?? .Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.March 17, 2022 at 5:05 amthe couple decide on it dear. pls contact 09287380449 or email us at lgbtscc@gmail.comReply
17. JIEApril 2, 2022 at 10:34 amPagka sa church nyo po gaganapin may other fees pa po ba bukod sa 10k?Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.April 2, 2022 at 10:05 pmwala nang ibang fee.Reply
18. KrisApril 5, 2022 at 9:57 amRev.ask lang po ako if mg kano po ang charge/fee ngayun 2022 ?.per couple po ba yan or pwde madamihan ?.ilan po kaya pwde pg madamihan ?.mg oorganize po ksi ako ng weeding pra mdami kami dto sa province namin sabay2 ng pakasal dahil madami din kmi dto gusto wla lang idea yung iba..Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.April 7, 2022 at 7:16 ampls contact us at 09164260481 or 09287380449Reply
19. MayaApril 26, 2022 at 11:28 amCge poh pg mlp8 n kming umuwi twgan q nlng poh kau pra Mai settle ung lht ng dpt aucn tnx pohReply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.April 26, 2022 at 11:58 amok dearReply
20. VonJune 5, 2022 at 4:57 pmHello Good afternoon Father, Kailangan po ba ng maraming witness if me and my foreign partner from US decided to Have Holy Union Rite?Reply
    1. Rev.Crescencio “Ceejay” Agbayani Jr.June 7, 2022 at 7:57 pmhindi naman. kahit dalawa ay ok naman naReply

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ꜱᴀɢᴏᴛ ᴋᴏ, ʜɪɴᴅɪ ꜱᴀ ʟᴀʜᴀᴛ ɴɢ ᴘᴀɢᴋᴀᴋᴀᴛᴀᴏɴ ᴍᴀɢᴀɢᴀᴍɪᴛ ʏᴀɴ, ᴅᴀʜɪʟ ᴍᴀʏ ᴍɢᴀ ʙᴀɢᴀʏ ɴᴀ ɢᴜꜱᴛᴜʜɪɴ ᴍᴏ ᴍᴀɴ ɢᴀᴡɪɴ, ᴡᴀʟᴀ ɴɢ ꜱᴀᴘᴀᴛ ɴᴀ ᴅᴀʜɪʟᴀɴ ᴘᴀʀᴀ ᴍᴀɢᴀᴡᴀɴ ᴘᴀ ɴɢ ᴘᴀʀᴀᴀɴ…

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Minsan May Hinanahanap tayo sa buhay

Minsan ay hinahanap natin ang kukumpleto sa atin. Hinahanap natin ang magbibigay ng kahulugan sa buhay na ating hinihinga.

Kung minsan sa paghahanap na ito, ay nakakatagpo tayo ng mga hindi magagandang karanasan. Madalas ay masasaktan tayo. Kung minsan sa paghahanap na ito ay mapatitigil tayo at mag iisip na wala hindi na natin kalian man makikita ang ating hinahanap.

Nalulukob na tayo ng takot at pangamba. Madalas ay mas pinipili nating lasahan ang pait ng mga hindi magaganda na ating naranasan hanggang magdesisyon na lamang tayo na itigil na ang paghahanap na ito.

Subalit kung iyong babalikan ang simula ng iyong paghahanap, iyong panahon na para kang bata na handang harapin ang lahat, basta magawa mo lamang ang iyong ninanais, masusuri mo na ang iyong hinahanap ay ang kukumpleto sa iyo, yung magbibigay ng kahulugan sa ating buhay na hinihinga.

Muli, mapatitigil ka, sapagkat ang iyong hinahanap, kung iyong susuriin ng mas malalim ang iyong nararamdaman at ninanais, ang iyong hinahanap na akala mong hindi na makikita ay kasama mo na pala simula pa noong una.

Siya yung nakangiti, yung masaya na parang bata, na punong puno ng pag-asa para sa hinahanap niya. Siya yung kasama mong nasaktan, kasama mong naging masaya, kasama mong may natutunan sa lahat ng pagkadapa na iyong naranasan, siya ay ikaw…

Sa ibang tao nga ba natin kailangan unang hanapin ang pagtanggap?

Sa kanila nga ba natin dapat unang mararamdaman ang kabuuan ng ating katauhan?

Sa ibang tao nga ba talaga natin dapat unang hinahanap ang kahulugan ng ating buhay?

Naniniwala akong ang paghahanap ay hindi magiging mahirap kung ito ay una mong matatagpuan sa iyong sarili. Sapagkat hindi kahit kailan man magiging sapat ang kahit na anong pagtanggap kung ang kakulangan na iyong nararamdaman ay hindi naman dapat ibang tao ang magpupunan.

Ang pagtanggap mo sa iyong sarili, ang pagbibigay mo ng kahulugan at importansiya dito ang magiging palatandaan ng iba kung paano ka nila tatratuhin, kung paano ka nila bibigyan ng halaga, kung paano ka nila iingatan at higit sa lahat kung paano ka nila mamahalin.

Sapagkat kung alam mo ang pag-ibig na dapat ay para sa iyo, hindi ka mahihirapan na ipaintindi ito sa iba. Hindi mo kailangan ibaba ang iyong sarili. Hindi mo kailangan na mawala at magmakaawa para manatili sa akala mong pagsinta na hindi mo na kahit kailan pang makikita sa iba.

Hindi kahit kailan man naging tama na maging basehan mo ang iyong nakaraang relasyon,hindi pagmamahal, sa mga taong hindi ka pinahalagahan para sukatin ang iyong halaga. Sapagkat dapat ikaw ang tunay na magtitimbang nito.

Sapagkat ikaw ang tunay na makakadama.

Ikaw ang totoong magpapahalaga sa’yo bago ang ibang tao.

Dahil maaaring ang iyong mga nakikita sa iyong nakakasama o nagugustuahn ay ang mga bahagi mo na gusto mo sanang makita nila at makita mo. Ang mga bahagi mo na hindi mo pa tuluyang niyayakap at iyon ang ginagawa mong pamantayan.

Oras na para tignan mo ang iyong sarili sa salamin at kilalalin ang mga bahagi mo nang hindi mo na ito hinahanap pa sa iba.

Gawin mo ito upang ang iyo nang susunod na makikita at makikilala ay ang makakasama mo. Yung handa mong yakapin ng buo. Hindi lamang ang mga bahagi nila na nakikita mo ang iyong sarili kundi pati na rin ang mga bahagi na kayo ay magkaiba, magkasalungat, at hindi kapareha.

Sapagkat lahat tayo ay dapat na buo sa ating mga sarili bago pa man tayo magsimulang maghanap ng makakasama. Lahat tayo ay karapat dapat sa pagmamahal na buo.

Ang bawat bahagi natin ay karapat-dapat sa pagtanggap, hindi lamang dapat ng iba. Pati na ng ating sarili kung sisimulan lamang natin na makita.

How to Move On?

For You Basang A,

Kung bigo ka sa pag-ibig ngayon at gusto mong maka move-on, basahin mo ito. Sana may makukuha kang aral galing dito.

Araw Na Nagpm ka Bungad mo, Father Paano po ba Mag Move-on? Ang Hirap Hirap Po Kasi.Ang pagdudusa sa pagkabigo ng pag-ibig ay isa sa mga pinakamasakit na mangyayari sa buhay ng isang tao. Mga masasakit na salita at paalam galing sa taong mahal mo, lahat ng mga pangyayaring ‘di mo inaasahan na dadating ay dumating na lalo kung IKAW YONG NAGKAMALI NA SIYANG NAGING DAHILAN NIYA KAYA AYAW KA NA NIYANG BIGYAN NG CHANCE. Lahat ng kinakatakutan mo noon nung kayo pa ay nangyari na ngayon. Mga ala-ala ninyong dalawa ay kailangan mawala na. Mga pangako niya na napako na ngayon. Pinakaayaw nating lahat kapag nabigo ang tao sa pag-ibig ay siguradong may magbabago. Magbabago ang isang tao. Magbabago ang lahat, ang kilos ng isang tao at mga pananalita nila. Hindi mo alam kung ano ang gagawin mo.

Ni minsan nga mapapatanong ka nalang sa sarili mo kung kaya mo ba at kung paano ka makalimot sa taong noon ay palagi kang pinapasaya at ngayon ay sinasaktan ka na. Marami kang mga tanong na ‘di mo alam ang mga sagot. Ngayong wala na siya, wala kang ideya kung paano ka makakasurvive nito. May mga malapit na kaibigan ako na nakaranas na ng pagkabigo sa pag-ibig at masasabi kong ang pagmo-move-on ay mahirap dahil nabigo na rin ako...😒 Maglalahad ka ng maraming oras para maka move-on. Ni minsan pa nga, aabot ito ng ilang buwan o di kaya taon para makamove-on ang isang tao.

“Mahirap pero kailangan” salitang naririnig ko. Mahirap nga pero kailangan para sa ikakabuti niya at sa iyong sarili. Madaling magmahal pero mahirap magmove-on diba? Pero kung gusto mo talagang makamove-on kahit mahirap pa ‘yan, makakaya mo rin yan. ‘Di lang ito steps para maka move-on ka kundi steps rin ito para ‘di ka makakaranas ng depresyon.

Ngayon ang tanong, paano nga ba mag move-on sa isang tao? Narito ang mga steps na minsan naapply ko na sa sarili ko.

1. Katapusan. Dapat meron kayong katapusan o closure para di kana aasa pa. Importante ito para makasigurado ka sa lahat ng mga bagay. Baka aasa ka pa sa sinasabi ng iyong utak na “baka”, “what ifs” at “siguro” At para masigurado mo na tapos na talaga kayo at para makakapagsimula ka na ng bagong buhay.
2. Tanggapin. Alam mo na diba na hindi na siya babalik pero bakit ka pa rin naghihintay? Naghihintay ka lang sa wala. Tanggapin mo. Tanggapin mo na wala na kayo. Tanggapin mo ang katotohanan na wala na talaga siya at hanggang doon na lang. Siguro hindi kayo para sa isa’t isa pero ‘wag kang mag-alala, may dadating rin na para talaga sayo sa tamang panahon. Kailangan mong tanggapin ang lahat.
3. Ibahagi. ‘Wag mong itago ang iyong nararamdaman. Kailangan mong ibahagi ‘yan sa iyong mga kaibigan para ma bawas-bawasan ang sakit. Ibagahi mo sa tamang tao at sa tamang oras. ‘Wag kang matakot umiyak, iiyak mo lang ‘yan, ipalabas mo ang lahat ng mga sakit pero ‘wag mong araw-arawin dahil masama na yan sa iyong kalusugan.
4. Magpatawad at kalimutan. Sa lahat ng ginawa ng ex mo o sa ginawa niya na nagdulot ng inyong paghihiwalayan, patawarin mo siya. Oo, mahirap lalo na’t iisipin mo kung “bakit? Bakit niya nagawa ‘yon?” Patawarin mo siya dahil hindi ka makakamove-on kung may galit ka pa sa kanya. Humingi ka rin ng tawad dahil meron ka ring mga pagkakamaling nagawa at mga pagkukulang. Kung ano ang nangyari sa nakaraan ay dapat kalimutan mo na. Kalimutan mo ang lahat dahil tapos na ‘yon at wala ng dapat balikan pa. Ipagpatuloy mo lang ang iyong buhay. Makakalimot at magiging masaya ka rin.
5. Iwasan ang pakikipagkomunikasyon sa kanya. Kung maaari, wala kayong koneksyon sa isa’t isa para makakamove-on ka. Burahin mo number niya. Kung gusto mo siyang e block sa social media accounts mo, e block mo. Huwag kang makikipag-usap sa kanya para hindi kana aasa. Pero pwede naman kayong manatiling magkaibigan kung kaya mo.
6. Huwag na huwag mo siyang isipin. Oo, huwag mo siyang isipin. Mahirap nga pero wala tayong magagawa, nahulog ka sa kanya eh. Huwag mog ikulong sarili mo sa kakaisip sa kanya. Memories are memories. E delete mo lahat ng pictures niyo o di kaya ilagay mo lahat ng memories ninyo sa lugar kung saan mache-check mo ulit kung kailan handa ka na. Isipin mo nalang ang ibang bagay. Humanap ka ng bagong pag-aabalahan sa buhay.
7. Gawin mo ang mga bagay na nagpapasaya sayo. Gawin mo ang mga bagay na alam mong doon ka sasaya. Kung gusto mong kumain, kumain ka ng mga paborito mong pagkain. Kung gusto mong manood ng sine, manood ka. Maglibang ka pero dapat hindi yung makakasira sa iyong sarili at sa iyong kinabukasan. Kung mag mumukmok ka lang, ‘di mo naman maiiwasang isipin siya diba? Kaya panahon na para e enjoy mo ang mga bagay na nagpapasaya sayo.
8. Mahalin mo ang sarili mo. Mahalin mo muna sarili mo bago ang iba. Kung magmamahal ka, ‘wag mong ibigay ang lahat, magtira ka sa sarili mo. Huwag ibaba ang tingin sa iyong sarili para mahalin ka niya. Isipin mo kung ano ang nakakabuti para sayo. Huwag mong isisi lahat sa sarili mo dahil sa una pa lang, di mo naman yan ginusto. May mga bagay lang talaga na kailangan ng ihinto dahil alam mong hindi na ito gagana.
9. Huwag kaawaan ang sarili. Huwag mong kaawaan sarili mo dahil magdudulot ito ng depresyon, natural lang ang masaktan dahil nagmahal ka eh. At huwag mo ring kaawaan siya dahil kung maaawa ka sa kanya, may malaking posibilidad na babalik yung feelings mo. Kaya mag concentrate at mag pokus ka sa pagmomove-on.
10. Magpakatotoo ka. Bigyan mo ang iyong sarili ng maraming oras at effort para mas magiging mabuti at matinong tao ka. Magiging masaya at maging kontento ka kung ano ang meron ka ngayon. ‘Di mo naman kailangan ng ibang tao sa tuwing walang wala kana dahil malakas ka at ikaw lang ang makakatulong sa iyong sarili. Huwag mong iisipin na hindi mo kaya, dapat kakayanin mo.
11. Maghain ng maraming oras kasama ang iyong pamilya at kaibigan. Ibigay mo ang iyong oras kasama ang pamilya at mga kaibigan mo. Magbonding kayo, ‘wag mong sayangin ang mga panahon na sila yung kasama mo, mas masaya kung nandyan sila sa tabi mo. Makinig ka sa mga advices nila dahil ‘yan ang makakapagmotivate sayo para maka move-on ka. E treasure mo sila at ipakita mo na mahalaga sila sayo.
12. Magdasal. Magdasal ka at humingi ka ng tulong sa ating Panginoon. Ipagdasal mo na sana magiging okay na ang lahat pero dapat tutulungan mo muna sarili mo. Palagi mong tatandaan na walang imposible lalong lalo na sa mata ng Diyos. Pantay pantay tayong lahat. Pagsubok lang ito sa iyong buhay, ‘di yan ibibigay ng ating Panginoon kung mo kaya. ‘Di ka pababayaan ng ating Panginoon at mas magiging malakas ka sa huli.
13. Isipin mo palagi ang positibong bagay. Isipin mo ang mga postibong bagay. Kung maaari, magbasa ka ng mga inspirational quotes para may gana kang magmove-on. Huwag kang mag-iisip ng mga negatibo dahil magdudulot lang ito sa depresyon at anxiety. Isipin mo rin na hindi pang habang buhay ang sakit na dinadama mo at hindi pa yan katapusan ng mundo.

Huwag mong madaliin ang pagmove on. Just let it be kasi wala namang bagay na napagtatagumpayan ng madalian. Kung makakamove-on kana, ‘di mali ang magmahal muli.
Dadating ang araw na may taong magmamahal sa atin gaya ng pagmamahal na ibinigay natin sa kanila. Sa panahon ngayon, mahirap na humanap ng matinong tao kaya kung may dadating sayo, mahalin mo siya ng tama. Pag di ka naniniwala sa forever, okay lang, may lifetime naman. Basta palagi mong tatandaan na kung magmamahal ka, siguradong masasaktan ka rin. Magkatabi lang talaga ang love at pain.
Hindi mo matatawag na love kung hindi ka masasaktan. Kung nasaktan ka, atleast may natutonan ka rin. Learn from your mistakes. Kung nagkamali ka, ituring mo yan na mga lessons mo sa buhay. Tayong lahat ay nakaranas na ng pagdudusa sa pagkabigo ng pag-ibig at nahihirapan tayong magmove-on. Pero sa huli, natuto pa rin tayong magparaya para di tayo makukulong sa ating damdamin. At dapat alam mo kung kailan kq hihinto dahil ‘di na ito worth it para sayo. Dapat alam natin ang ating kahalagahan bilang isang tao. Kapag hindi nakikita ng isang tao ang ating kahalagan, ‘wag na nating ipilit ang ating sarili sa kanila. Kung sawi ka ngayon at nababasa mo ito, stay strong. Magiging okay din ang lahat, ‘di pa ngayon pero sooner or later. Magtiwala ka lang sa sarili mo, kung kaya nila kaya mo rin at ‘wag na ‘wag kang mawalan ng pag-asa. Gawin mo lahat ng iyong makakaya, sa huli mawawala rin lahat ng mga sakit at magiging masaya ka ulit. Huwag kang mag-alala, ang totoong pag-ibig ay nakakapaghintay. Kusang dadating yun sayo sa tamang panahon. Kaya spread the love and never give up. Makakamove-on ka rin.

Sana makakatulong ito sayo kahit papaano at sana gagaan ang loob mo pagkatapos mong basahin ito. At sana may natutunan ka. Yun lamang at maraming salamat sa iyong pagbabasa, hanggang sa muli. Pagpalain ka sana ng Panginoong Diyos. 🙏✝️🙏

Thought

Often,
I’ve been told by other’s that they appreciate my writings….
I’ve also been questioned for my openness, questioned on my sharing of my deepest feelings. .. Seem at times some people simply wish I’d shut up... I guess society is lead to believe those deepest feelings are meant for only a select few, like family and goods friends. .

I see it differently. …
Maybe because of the two people who taught me to be me..
Maybe because of the path my life has taken me down. ..
Maybe because of my belief that sharing some very personal feelings might ease the hurt that others are experiencing, motivate those who are less confident and inspire those that are the less driven. …. By no means

do I seek to be praised for my unwanted earned wisdom, truth be told it’s all part of my healing, it’s meant to motive me. ..
Yes There are day’s where I believe none of that seems possible…
Then I make myself remove the blinders that try to keep me from seeing and thinking about all God has blessed me with,
I make myself remember the growth that accrued in my toughest and hardest moments… I found this in the weirdest of ways, at a time where I wondered what my purpose would be,
I share to heal and help that is all.
If it offends you, don’t read, if it helps you, then my openness has a purpose….

facebook jailed me

Hi folks,

My time in facebook jail appeared to be over.!!!I had the misfortune to be banned from facebook this week from monday to Thursday. I’ve suffered from facebook glitches before, whole days when I was unable to like or post or even comment, but nothing like this total block that lasted four very long days.!! At first I wasn’t too concerned, I assumed it was just another glitch which would sort itself out, so I did all the usual things – I changed my password, uninstalled and reinstalled the app, powered my tablet down and switched it back on and reported the fault to fb help settings– who, FYI, are harder than God to contact.!!!!

Nothing worked….
With rising concern, I realised every time I tried to do anything, a little message would pop up informing me that I’d been blocked for violating facebook community standards! Now, I had no idea what that meant and asked among my friends who are a bit more social media savvy than me.

They informed me it meant I’d either done something facebook didn’t approve of – maybe posted a few too many times in one day or liked and commented too quickly, all of which would cast doubt on my humanity and make them believe I was a robot! Or, another possibility was someone had reported me for something, and my account had been temporarily blocked while the accusation was looked into. This was an unpleasant thought. My facebook feed is innocence itself, I post about my daily views or sharing my thoughts, so I know if anyone did report me it was purely from malicious spite and that doesn’t sit well with me. Desperately, I tried to keep the momentum up in my websiteblog alone, and friends and supporters valiantly tried to help, sharing the post in their stories and on their feeds. Unable to comment back, like or follow back the people who’d followed me and entered into the giveaway, I would constantly scan my notifications and carefully make a note of anyone who’d entered. Finally, Thursday evening I discovered I was able to like peoples posts again and comment. Tentatively, I tried a test post and discovered to my joy that it was allowed. My time in facebook jail appeared to be over.!!

I still don’t know what it was I was supposed to have done.Facebook are harsh dictators and give no reasons for their actions. Paranoid that we all might be bots using their precious platform for nefarious goings on, the infamous facebook algorithms tend to use a sledgehammer to crack open a nut and many innocent accounts like my own get shattered in the process. What got me the most was there was no comeback, no friendly helpline to explain the situation to and gain reassurance from. Come on facebook, you are becoming one of the biggest social media platforms in the world, surely, it’s time to develop the infrastructure to support your clientele. Instead of just arbitrarily sentencing without giving the accused any explanation of their crime and no chance to defend or excuse themselves, why not give us a way to contact you? Instead you lurk behind automated systems and refuse to make genuine contact with us. What are you hiding? Oh, the irony if an organisation terrified of being infiltrated by bots is actually completely run by bots itself. I hated being blocked from my own account. It may sound ridiculous and like a first world problem, but until it was taken away from me, I hadn’t realised how much I depended upon facebook. Not just for promoting friendship,love etc.,

Those four days in facebook jail made me realise something else. Like many of us, I’d been guilty of putting all my eggs into one basket. Loving the nice cosiness of facebook, I’d neglected to look for other platforms and other ways to spread the word or etc….. Oh, I’m on Instagram of course, but have to admit I’m not a great fan of it, and even in the two short years I’ve been on it have noticed a change in the nature of the posts.

Facebook now is a gossipy, toxic hotbed of slander, bitching and complaining. !

Para sa mga Sugatang Puso

Ladies and gentlemen let’s talk about the relationships that never left our hearts the same again.If your heart has never been broken, kindly skip this blog because this is clearly not for you. This is for those who will effortlessly relate because they are either going through it or have come out of it.

I remember my therapist explaining something similar when I was battling depression in 2019. This was also one of the reasons why he put me on anti depressants for nine months to help get my serotonin levels back to normal healthy levels.

The healing process begins when you…..

1.Accept it.

The first step in the healing process is acceptance. You need to come to terms with the relationships failure and accepting the fact that the person you loved didn’t love or stopped loving you back. You never want to be that person in denial who tries so hard to fix things because you still want to be in the relationship.Some man of God one-time said that you would rather be heartbroken while single than when you are married.The biggest mistake people make is moving on without healing from their past. People carry baggage to their new relationships sometimes treating their new partners terribly because they didn’t sort the underlying past issue hence finishing their frustrations on their new partner.

2.Mourn the end of your relationship.

Cry it out, curse it out, eat it out,talk it out, write it out, speak it out and most importantly pray it out. Never feel embarrassed to go back to God broken because his loving arms are always ready to help heal the pain and piece you back up. Apply any avenue which symbolizes you mourning the end of your relationship. Give yourself time to grieve this person who you had created a soul tie with. People don’t just wake up and forget about someone they had an emotional attachment to. If you thought you could, you are lying to yourself. It is true what they say about time, it heals all wounds. Give yourself time to reflect and prepare your brain for life without this person.

3.Self-love.

This is one thing that personally helped to pull me out of depression. I started to put focus on myself. Love and take care of yourself so hard that when someone makes you feel inadequate,you are able to quickly point it out. My therapist onetime during our therapy sessions told me that ” Mary you fall in the category of people who love others so hard but forget to leave a percentage for themselves” I got to learn that it is that percentage which keeps you sane Incase someone breaks your heart. Turns out,the damage is not as equally devastating as someone who put all their eggs in one basket. The kind of loving where this person becomes your life. How about you create your own happiness. I believe you know yourself best. Personally I take myself out for ice cream, love chocolate and cake, flowers, good sensual music etc Once in a while I create sometime for myself and just meditate. So what are some of those things you love that you had put aside?

4.Learn from the heart break.

Be better. Any humble person should be able to accept defeat and learn from it. All the heartbreaks in my past have taught me how never to settle for less, know exactly what I want, not to compromise my faith, salvation, NEVEEEEER to unequally Yoke again and trusting that God has the best partner for me. We might know what we want but he knows what we need.

5.Get closure if necessary.

There is nothing soothing like having closure with someone you once loved. If you are currently struggling with moving on, I recommend you kindly reach out to this individual and pour your heart out. Not to fix the relationship, rather to understand their side of their story. Why they made the decision they made to leave you. In August 2019 during my last therapy session, I asked my therapist wether I could reach out to the person who shattered my heart for a little bit of closure. For this particular ex, he advised me not to but introduced me to this form of release writing therapy. I wrote everything down I imagined I would say to him, in tears by the way and after burnt the letter as a symbol of finally letting go. Incase you are not able to access the person who broke your heart for complicated reasons, write them a letter. However, you don’t need to send it.

6.Move on.

As insensitive as it may sound, please move on. You can’t force someone to want you, like they are doing you a favor. Your feelings need to be reciprocated by the other individual too. I have always treated heart breaks as God saving me from something. Incase you hadn’t thought about it yet, you honestly deserve better. To love and be loved. To be appreciated, understood and seen. A kind of companionship which is good for your mental health too.

Iam far from perfect, never will be so if there is anyone out there whose heart I broke, from the bottom of my now healed heart, I AM SORRY. I pray that you may find it within you to forgive me.

I wrote this with utmost empathy for anyone out there struggling with a broken heart. To let you know that I know what you are going through and encourage you to choose you in this bitter experience you are going through or have come out of but still struggling to make peace with. Your mind, body and soul need you to help fix your heart because it is the fountain of life. The right person for you will eventually show up, will love you the way you have always deserved to be loved. If the right person for some EXTREMELY sad reason fails to show up( which I doubt 😄), then how about you become your own everything?

Never be afraid of wanting better for yourself.

Dear my Heavenly God, before you are your children looking for peace of mind, answers to heal and patch up the pain in their hearts. May you be the reason for their healing, may their rejection turn into a unique glory that will prove that you never left them when then were hurting. May you remould them the way you are still doing to me to one-day be a breathing example of the strength they had to overcome that pain in their hearts. In Jesus’s mighty name I have prayed,amen.

Know more about yourself and Master your own self,

Pag nakilala mo ng husto ang sarili mo at kilala mo sya sa bawat reaction at aksyon ng life mo, your intentions and your being — it’s almost a joke when someone is trying to tell you about you.

Many of us think that we live in this world 🌍 but the world that matters, is what you have in you. Walang nakaka kilala sa iyo pero ikaw lang, kaya I hope you make decisions based on yourself — not based on anybody else or sa sasabihin ng ibang tao.

I hope you find ways for you to carry youself well and be independent ng maaga kasi independence is freedom. Mas may choices ka sa sarili mo if you know how to make money, if you know how to make decisions sa life mo that is right for you.

Yes! Go and drive you own world, no matter how crazy you’ll drive it pero ikaw yung nag ddrive, ikaw ang nag dedecide. Ikaw ay tunay na natututo kasi wala kang ibang ibblame bakit jan ka napunta kaka drive. Ang saya nyan, lalo sa success! Wow na wow pag naka rating na sa destination at sa gusto mong puntahan dahil sinunod mo ang sarili mo. 🙌🏻

Ang tunay na mayamang tao ay yung may freedom — freedom to express sino sya at freedom to do things na gusto nya.

Be independent | Know more yourself and Master your own self, that is the most exciting in your life

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Normal Lang Na May Panlalamig ang isang relasyon.

It’s okay, it’s normal kung dumating kayo sa point na parang wala ng sparks, yung tipong napakadalang na ng kilig moments dahil busy na kayo, normal lang yan. Para sa akin ha, pero yung totally na wala na, ibang usapan na ‘yun, yung tipong ngumingiti na siya ng hindi ikaw ang dahilan….
Pero kapag dumating kayo sa punto na, wala ng init wala ng baga ang pagmamahalan, huwag sana kayo sumuko, huwag niyo sana itapon ang lahat. Kung dumating kayo sa puntong parang wala na ang lahat at ang tanging solusyon nalang ay putulin, huwag muna. Bumalik ka sa umpisa, bumalik ka sa pinaka- una. Doon mo mapagtatanto, kasi babalik ka sa pinakauna eh, dun sa mga panahaong nakakakilig pa at doon mo tanungin ang sarili mo ” bakit ko nga ba ito mahal, bakit ko nga ba ito pinapasaya? Ano na nga ba yung purpose kung bakit ko pinapasaya itong taong ‘to” at ” bakit ko nga ba ito sinagot? anong purpose? pinapasok ko lang ba siya sa buhay ko, para sa ano?” Isipin niyo kung bakit naging kayo, isipin mo ba’t ka nag-commit sa taong ‘to. Kasi dun babalik ang lahat eh, sisiksik sa utak mo na ” ah itong taong ‘to, hindi maaring mawala ‘to sa buhay ko, kasi mahal na mahal ko ‘to.”

Yan ang mali sa atin eh, mali ang pagkakaintindi natin sa salitang “Pag-ibig” na dapat araw-araw happy ka, ang ibig sabihin ng “Pag-ibig” ay pinili mong maging happy sa taong kasama mo, through ups and downs, o kahit sa ano pang gawin ng tadhana, pipiliin mong mag-stay, pipiliin mo siya kasi pinili mong magmahal, kasi ika nga nila love is a choice.😂😂😂😂😍😍😍😍

KUMUSTA?

Kumusta? Simpleng tanong pero madalas walang oras na sagutin. Minsan nga hindi pa totoo ang sagot.

Masaya ka pa ba?
O patuloy na nagpapanggap na masaya?

Do you still have hope o nagsasawa ka ng lumaban?

‘Yung totoo, are you really actually fine? Maybe some of us are getting stressed and depressed dahil sa tambak na mga gawain....School man ‘yan, house chores, trabaho, jowa at kung anu-ano pa... Minsan nga kahit sa simpleng problem lang ay mapapaiyak ka dahil kahit anong gawin mo ay hindi mo talaga maintindihan... You tried your best na pakalmahin ang sarili mo but tears didn’t stop..... I just want to say… “Good job.” Good job dahil binibigyan mo ng panahon ang sarili mong maglabas ng mga emosyon. To care about your future, to reach out. But please always remind yourself that you are a human. Hindi ka isang robot na manhid at hindi napapagod. Don’t curse yourself for having these feelings! You heard it said na puro emosyon kapag walang devotion. That’s true but emotion itself is not evil. Why would God made us as emotional beings in the first place if it is evil?

Everything that God has made is good. So, we should not refuse anything that he has made. Instead, we should receive it and thank God for it.

It’s okay to be emotional because it is valid. But make sure to run to Jesus and not run away from Him. Because when we are emotional, we are being vulnerable. It’s easy to believe the lies rather than the truth because we tend to abandon our identity and think that we don’t have faith.
Sometimes, we may twist the scriptures, or worse, call it lies.

If there are times na nawawalan ka na ng motibasyon, ask this question to yourself,
“Para kanino ba ako bumabangon?”

But whatever you are feeling and believing right now, it doesn’t change the fact that Jesus loves and cares for you deeply.

Long ago the Lord said to Israel: “I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself. I will rebuild you, my virgin Israel. You will again be happy and dance merrily with your tambourines.(Jeremiah 31:3‭-‬4)